My husband is helping his work "friend" out and I don't get why..Please help me understand !?

ok im not going to pretend i know the first thing about marriage but to me it sounds like your husband has a real bad case of feeling sorry for this guy. It sounds like he's a real sweet guy, and cant turn down a person in need. but if you feel it is unhealthy for your children having him around hold your ground and tell your husband how you feel about it. he needs to understand that its not just you being a scroog but you truly feel really uncomfortable having this guy around. I know how it feels to be in his situation. we have a neighbour who is a solo mum trasing a 14 year old boy with a serious screw loose (so does she). they really anoy the hell out of us as she doesn't drive and so relies on us to take her for groceries etc. even though there are shopsd well and truly within walking distance. even though it annoys us when shecalls us up to ask if we can take her shopping often we just can say no. we find it really hart turning down a person in need even if they anoy the hell out of us. im picking this is what you husband. but you have to make him his family comes first. tell him he doesn't need to completely break it off with his work friend but just go about it differntly. eg instead of having they work guy come you your house before work have your husband pick him up o they way to work. there is no reason it cant work. just make sure your husband know how you feel about it